We laughed, we cried, we empathised. Yesterday’s Being the Story event, curated and organised by Jude Habib of SoundDelivery was a showcase for stories.
It wasn’t a traditional charity conference. There was no mention of digital comms channels, no talk of impact measurement. We shimmyed our pom poms, we boxed, we walked in other people’s shoes and sang. But most of all we heard people’s stories, told first hand. It was moving and powerful and upsetting and inspiring. It was all about the experience.
Each speaker shared their story in their own way. The common thread was how the speakers had used their own experiences to do something amazing. I can’t even start to represent the power of the stories which were shared. So here is a very brief summary, with links to more information on the BeingTheStory website. We heard from:
- Pastor and community campaigner Lorraine Jones whose son Dwayne Simpson was fatally stabbed in Brixton in 2014 and set up Dwaynamics to help young people develop life skills through boxing and fitness
- Sam Smith whose own troubled start in life inspired him to support young people
- Jodie Clark whose own experience of disability discrimination by employers led her to become an advocate
- Solicitor Sue James who tells the stories of the people she represents in Hammersmith and Fulham Law Centre
- Mandy Thomas‘ who told the harrowing story of domestic violence
- The Empathy Museum’s project of ‘A Mile in My Shoes’ which was recently used at the NHS Conference to help health professions understand the experience of patients
- Brititte Aphrodite who shared sections from her punk poetry show about her depression
- Naveed and Samiya Parvez who created Andiamo to fit and 3D print orthotics after their experience with their son – “we realised that we’d always had healthcare done to us, not with us”
- Emma Lawton who shared how her diagnosis of Parkinson’s at 29 changed her life in a positive way
- Hassan Akkad who shared his 87 day journey to the UK from Syria
- Photographer Giles Duley who shares the stories of the people he photographs via his humanitarian projects
- The Micro Rainbow International Interfaith Choir.
How stories are told
The stories they told were amazing. But more than that, it was how they were told. Hearing directly from someone in the same room, is very powerful.
In some cases the delivery was a performance. Watching Emma Lawton peg visual representations of the things that had happened to her, then cut the piece of string held by her parents was one of the most moving things I have seen. It brought the house down.
First-hand stories are powerful. You might think you are doing this already through your case studies. But it is not the same.
This is about creating a platform and a culture where people want to share their stories for you. They are the ambassadors for your cause, not your charity. They help people to understand and empathise about the condition / experience which helps to inspire someone to help do something about it (through donating / volunteering etc).
How to harness this is crucial. The strongest channel must be the in-person delivery. The top of the comms pyramid is the opportunity to be listened to for 20 minutes with no distractions. How could you not be affected?
There are other examples which come close. The audio / shoe experience from the Empathy Museum connects sound with something physical. The WeAreHere installation in June bought the stories of WW1 soldiers to life. There must also be examples of individual storytelling using Virtual Reality. These are all about intimacy and experience. By sharing an experience we can feel empathy.
Can this be done in other ways? Watching a video of that person is good but not the same as in-person delivery. You have to be so engaging that the hovering swipping finger stays still until the end. Can you distill someone’s story into 140 characters, a written case study or blog post? It is of course possible but is it enough? Maybe it depends on the complexity of the story?
There are some organisations doing this. For example SeeMeScotland’s recent #myunfilteredlife campaign where people have been sharing images on instagram with many saying ‘I don’t usually join in with social media shared like this’. An intimate picture and powerful words, directly from the person helps us to share the experience.
Start with empathy
There are organisations who have expert ambassadors who publicly talk, for example CoppaFeel’s founder Kris Hallenga who was the highlight of one Media Trust conference and the Expert Citizens programme. Emma Lawton is herself an ambassador for Parkinson’s UK. And many organisations have beneficiaries who speak to the media.
SoundDelivery’s mission has been to help organisations collect and use the stories of the people they work with. They understand the power of putting on a pair of headphones, listening to someone speak and sharing someone’s world.
The question for us all as charity comms people is how to find and share the authentic voices. Whether you take inspiration from Emma Lawton’s performance or ideas from the Empathy Museum, now is the time to be creative. Now is the time to find ways to put empathy rather than sympathy at the heart of your comms.
More from #BeingTheStory
- A dog called Guiness and stories and the social good by Nick Booth
- A mother whose son was stabbed to death reminds me of the power of storytelling by Dan Slee
- If you believe in a story, keep on telling it by Gemma Pettman
- Storytelling: why I am all ears by Claire Bridge
- The benefits of storytelling or why you should spend your training budget on stories – more by Nick Booth
- 5 reasons we should all be telling more stories – Jessica Southgate
- Being the Story – from Dorset to London.
Spotted any first-hand stories? Do share them in the comments. This week I read this story in the Metro Online for World Alzheimer’s Day – My nan’s dementia and me.